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So Old, So Young by Grant Ginder

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So Old, So Young

by Grant Ginder

Why we recommend it

So Old, So Young brings together contemporary fiction, friendship, and coming of age again. It is a strong match for readers drawn to love & loss, darkly funny, and book club read.

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Book-club questions

Spoiler note: These prompts are best explored after everyone has finished the book.

  • How does organizing the story around five parties change the way we experience twenty years of friendship?
  • Which relationships endure because of genuine closeness, and which survive through habit or nostalgia?
  • What do the six friends lose—and gain—as they move into middle age?
  • Does the novel portray lifelong friendship as a promise, a burden, or an evolving choice?